This guy that I like, he barely talks to me. But when he does he seems way nervous (as am I). I tell my friend about it and she claims that he totally likes me. So, here are some tips to see if a shy guy likes you:

1. He is nervous around you and might mess up what he says
2. He tries to act cooler and get your attention when he is near you
3. Eye contact and Smiles!

In this case, we're talkin' about shy guys. You know, the guys that aren't directly flirting with you or strutting around the hall like they're hot stuff. These little hints can make you feel like he likes you, which he probably does.

Now, one thing I don't want you to think. I've seen this in other blogs and advice columns : Just because he barely talks to you doesn't mean that he doesn't like you! Yes! So, whatever you might have heard, be assured. Some guys are shy, and they just drop subtle hints. So don't be discouraged if he's not around you 24/7. Besides, the most important rule is:

Rule 2: BE CONFIDENT (Never give up)

There came a time where I thought: He obviously doesn't like me, I'm just gonna give up. After I offcially told myself that I was "giving up," I just couldn't. Saying this didn't stop my feelings for him. And how could I possibly just give up on the charming, attractive, nice guy? Well, yeah I couldn't. So even if you feel like You're going nowhere, you're gettin' somewhere! Keep tryin out there readers!

Another School Day...

Wow...you know that feeling when you feel like nobody notices you? Yep, that's how I have been feeling the past few weeks. I guess you could say that I am a quiet person, but I have strong feelings.

Let's just say, the other girls in my class are all in little groups. Where do I fall into that? Nowhere. Now, I'm not some pyscho who likes being a loner, I am just not a clique kind of person. I have friends but not really close ones. Especially in last period, I feel so lonely, like no one wants to talk to me. The guy I like rarely talks to me! I mean, sometimes I try to talk to him, but he barely talks to me. My friends just say that he's nervous to talk to me too, but I'm not so sure. There's not much I can do now that school is ending. Okay, let's be more positive now...I just feel so out of place in my class, but luckily I have my sister!

That brings me to Aid #1:
Always have a place to fall.
If you have a sibling or really close friend, talk to them! No matter what is happening, tell your buddy. It will help you tremendously. Always have someone you can go to, that way you will never feel alone.

So, that's my school life pretty much right now. Anyone else have interesting story or just want to let something out? Comment!

Crush Advice...

Anonymous said... I'm too afraid to ask this guy out on a date. I know he likes me because of the way he acts around me. Also, a few people have told me that they heard he likes me. I just don't know what to do. Can you help?

 Love Advisor said... Of course I can help! Now, if you are too afraid to go up and ask him, "Will you go out with me?" Try doing that in a more discreet way. For instance, you could say, "We should go to a movie sometime," or "We should go see that new movie _______ together." Now, this may be difficult to do if you rarely talk to him, but if you know he likes you go for it! Talk to him more and get to know him. Don't be afraid ESPECIALLY if you know he feels the same way about you. Hope this helps!

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