Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Sorry its been so long!

Finals studying...yeah not so fun. Anyway!

I don't really like the guy that I used to have a crush on anymore. Now I'm kind of liking my guy friend. Let's say the guy I used to have a crush on is Guy A. My friend is Guy B. Okay, so I talked with Guy A a little last week and he is kind of nice. He's just so cocky and a little full of himself. Yes, he is attractive (teehee) but I can't just like the guy because he's hot. I came to realize that maybe Guy B (Who isn't as attractive) is genuinely kinder and caring. Also, I know him better and I know he likes me. Geez this is sooo crazy. Before the school year ended though I wish that I knew if Guy A liked me or not. Maybe I'll just chat him on Facebook over the summer or something because we are going to seperate schools....But you know what, I don't actually need to date anybody! Like I said before, do I justr feel like I need to love somebody? Maybe it is just kind of...natural. Well, I'm pretty sure that I am going to go out with Guy B. He's nice, funny and he has nice eyes. :) teehee. What do you guys think?

P.S. Found this for all of you with "Mixed signal" guys and it's REALLY helpful. Check it out!
http://community.sparknotes.com/2011/05/19/ask-jono-guy-body-language

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Craziness!

This is hard. I know, that's how a lot of you feel everyday. Trust me, I know. You come home from school with things about your crush running through your mind: Does he like me? He said I looked pretty today! OMG I was sooo embarassed when I...

Well, get this. I'm sure some of you can relate. Some of you have "guy friends" right? Yeah, well I have a few. One in particular is really close and has been for a while. I'm kind of starting to like him. I know, I know, ohmygoodness! But I know that it's okay! But now I'm in another situation.

Do I really like him, or do I force myself to because I know I can never get my crush?

Aha! Dilemma! So, how do I answer that question? Well, even I am still trying to put the pieces together. Now, I know my guy friend likes me and I have felt a little attraction towards him. Plus, I barely talk to my crush and BARELY know him at all. Also, if I'm sooooo nervous around him, why would I go out with him? I want a guy that I know I can trust and be myself around. (Which is a good thing!!!)

So, you know in all of those movies where a girl asks her guy friend to help her win over her crush, and in the end, she falls in love with her guy friend? I think that's the road I'm on, and for right now...

                                                               I'm perfectly okay with it. <3