It's not always what you think...

Mistake #2:

You have a crush on this boy right? But you're afraid to talk to him right? If you answered yes, you already are deep into Mistake 2.

      Face it, if you never talk to the boy, you're never going to get to know each other and you are NEVER going to go out! I spent an entire school year crushing on this boy and telling myself, Go talk to him. I would make up random stories that I could tell him in case I would talk to him. Finally I realized that my best guy friend was the one I truly liked. Now I'm going out with him.

      Girls spend so much time wanting to get attention from a guy they don't talk to. Even if you did go out, you'd be too nervous to talk and it wouldn't work out. Now I've learned that you shouldn't even bother. Truth is, life really is like those Disney movies, where the girl falls in love with her guy friend at the end. So don't say, "I don't want to go out with him because he's my friend." Do you two share things in common? Does he make you laugh? Do you look forward to seeing him in school? Then he is your perfect match. Don't deny it and DON'T care about what other people may think, go for it!

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Mistake #1

Yes, love does have its flaws. There are many mistakes made in love, but I'll take it step by step. Here we go:

Mistake #1: You over-think everything you do or say.

You all do this. After talking to your boyfriend or crush your mind floods with questions. Was I smiling? Did my hair look bad? Did I say something stupid? He didn't laugh. Does he think I'm ugly? Well, basically, you just need to tell yourself to shut. up. That's right. You are who you are. Yes, people make mistakes. Plus, a guy may like if you are a little klutzy. Guys hate perfect girls, its....kind of creepy. So if you stumble on your words or  say something slightly stupid, its NOT the end of the world. Besides, he should like you for who you are, no the person you are trying to be. Accept your mistakes, and make them you.

Also to go along with this rule. Don't over-think things that he does. If he didn't talk to you at school for a day or two, don't immediately assume that he's mad at you. Flash a smile when you pass him in the hallways. He probably just hasn't gotten a chance to talk with you. You can always start the conversation as well. Guys do like confident girls. what they don't like is girls who are extremely dramatic.

Basically, don't dwell on your embarrassing moments. They're part of the past. kepp on going and don't look back. As Oscar Wilde said, Be yourself, because everybody else is taken. 


Thanks again readers!

-Love Adviser <3

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Wow, how sad. I have not blogged in 4 months! COMPLETELY SAD! Anyway....there are plenty of things to catch up on. Now with the new school year rushing by, there are soo many topics to bring up and help! I also need to tell you about my first date. I've had many since then, so I'll just summarize. Oh, and by the way it is NOT necessary to kiss on the first date, JUST so you all know! Thanks to my two new followers! I thought no one would follow this! Spread the word too because I'm back and ready to blog! Well, not quite yet considering I actually should be writing an essay now....But this weekend Fall Break starts! I will blog like crazy! Stay posted!!!!! THANKS!!!

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