Mistake #1

Yes, love does have its flaws. There are many mistakes made in love, but I'll take it step by step. Here we go:

Mistake #1: You over-think everything you do or say.

You all do this. After talking to your boyfriend or crush your mind floods with questions. Was I smiling? Did my hair look bad? Did I say something stupid? He didn't laugh. Does he think I'm ugly? Well, basically, you just need to tell yourself to shut. up. That's right. You are who you are. Yes, people make mistakes. Plus, a guy may like if you are a little klutzy. Guys hate perfect girls, its....kind of creepy. So if you stumble on your words or  say something slightly stupid, its NOT the end of the world. Besides, he should like you for who you are, no the person you are trying to be. Accept your mistakes, and make them you.

Also to go along with this rule. Don't over-think things that he does. If he didn't talk to you at school for a day or two, don't immediately assume that he's mad at you. Flash a smile when you pass him in the hallways. He probably just hasn't gotten a chance to talk with you. You can always start the conversation as well. Guys do like confident girls. what they don't like is girls who are extremely dramatic.

Basically, don't dwell on your embarrassing moments. They're part of the past. kepp on going and don't look back. As Oscar Wilde said, Be yourself, because everybody else is taken. 


Thanks again readers!

-Love Adviser <3

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